K so after a ton of emails and text I'll answer your questions. Yes this was planned. No I'm not wanting a boy, maybe the forth one can be a boy, but a girl would be a lot easier for us. If I get a boy I will be happy. The due date is Sept. 11, and we realize that is unfortunate. Yes I'm increasingly sick, just like I was with both of the girls, so we're not that worried about miscarriage. Yes we are THRILLED!!!